Why I will never officiate
a gay marriage
I know this is a hot topic. Officiating
weddings fall underneath the umbrella of my profession. Often I get asked my opinion
on it. I am not trying to win an argument but am simply stating my stance on why
I will never preform a gay marriage.
I will one day stand before God
for everything I said and everything I didn’t say. As a preacher of the Bible I
hold a sacred responsibility to teach its contents. The Bible could not be
clearer that marriage is between a man and a women and that it is gravely wrong
for any Christian minister to perform other ceremonies.
Theologically it is irreconcilable.
The purpose of marriage is to be a picture of Christ and the Church. This does
not fit if both are the same sex. Historically, the Bible teaches God created
Eve to complete Adam. Naturally it does not make sense to me. There are no gay
animals. It goes against basic survival. Mentally I don’t understand. Morally
it is simply against God’s code.
There are some that will say; “I
was born gay.” That to me is no excuse. When I went through puberty I desired
to have sex with lots of girls but I didn’t. I used self-control. Many times I
was angry and naturally I wanted to kill someone but I didn’t do that either.
To give into lust and say; “I had a natural desire” just is not a sufficient
answer. Some will say; “they are really in love” or “they love just as much as
you.” But love can be wrong. “Don’t be unequally yoked” and “guard your heart,”
mean you chose who you love. Love does not make it right. Others will say; “If
it makes you happy.” This is not the creed for the Christian. The word “Happiness”
comes from the Latin “happen stance” sometimes you have the right circumstance,
sometimes you don’t. The Christian strives to live righteously with God. God
has made it clear to live right with Him is to obey His word and not live in blatant
rebellion.
Like all people without the Lord
they are hurting and trying to find happiness. They are like me, people made in
the image of God trying to find their way through life. The difference is, many
have believed a lie that they can’t change. People can change. We are all
changing every day. That is what life is, a process we go through. I do not
think they are “Americas downfall” or wish them harm. I do not lose sleep
thinking evil about them. I know that God loves them. I honestly hope this blog
does not push them further from God. At the end of the day, I come home to a
beautiful wife, wonderful kids and a happy home. I stay positive knowing that
God is working on every heart.
“By the power vested in me by
the state of California I know pronounce you…” the state will do what it wants.
I am not responsible for more than my vote and my voice. I do not expect the
state to be the church. But to the gay clergy; you are to me what Judas was to
the other disciples. You are without excuse. Sell outs. People come to you for
the truth, one book you are so post to read and know and you deceive them. I
have no peace with you, no part with you. You are not my brother or sister, you
are a Judas. And those ministers in denominations that condone gay weddings, you’re
staying in that movement is your consent. You are weak to me, if you cannot
stand for the truth then turn in your pulpit. God will not bless what He said
is cursed. So for me, I exercise my freedom to abstain from officiating any gay
weddings.